We’re not restricted in life by our own doing; we’re restricted by our own affections. Think about it: Ultimately, you’re always restricted or promoted by what you love.
Preachers don’t restrict you, religion doesn’t, and the fact that you are a Christian and attend church regularly doesn’t make you all you can be. If your life is not moving forward it’s because of what you love. When you love, you become tied to, and influenced by who you’re connected with. The people that you love are either holding your life back or propelling it toward your destiny.
If you have a great calling, but you’re running with people who don’t, you love them more than your calling. If you refuse to break off these relationships that create great inequity, don’t get mad at others, or the church, because your life and your relationships are not flowing as planned.
Check the people you run with, the people you’re tied to, and who influence you.
Every relationship you have, every bond that you form, matters.







What happens when the person who’s keeping you down and holding you back is your spouse?
Just “showing up” doesn’t cut it anymore. You must be an active participant in your calling and allow the Lord to prune away the “branches” that aren’t productive. Sometimes those branches are relationships.
Thank you for that word!
this is an excellent message regarding relationships because it is so true. When you run with the right crowd your with right people, you cover their back and they cover yours.
I have tried to live right,but my husband doesn’t even try,how can I live for the lord when I live with the devil? He’s really not the devil,but when I try to live right, the devil jumps all over him!
that is just what i needed today.
Going places determines who catching the ride with, Dead Weight will have you lose your viision. Good Word
When you are flying high you have to be careful not to take excess baggage. We have to rid ourselves of any weight that is so easily to beset us.
Heb 12:1
…. let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us,
I enjoyed the original post- very enlightening!
This is a wonderful message, God Bless.
Awesome! Word just what I needed today. We have to take an honest approach with the subject of our earthly relationships. What is he/or she adding or subtracting from me spiritually??? WOW!!
Personally, after years of my family members opinion of me appearing to make me rise and fall in my relationship with the Lord. it dawned on me I was in control, I was ‘allowing’ this behavior…they were running my life, not the Lord. No person can serve two masters! After seeking the Lord, I believe He showed me they were ‘emotionally toxic’ to me and that I could pray for them, from a safe distance and that His opinion of me was all that mattered. Now, I am much happier without them directly involved in my life, accepted the fact that I will never measure up to what they want me to be, and am truly walking in the acceptance of knowing I’m loved by Christ and accepted by His Beloved. Jesus is my everything!
WOW! That’s good stuff. thanks!
Pastor Ron, i thank God for u, everytime it becomes difficult for me u are always there to strengthen me. U r a pillar of my family. I am a single mom of four and in South Africa. You are a God send to me and my children. I would like to partner with you because you r a blessing to us. May God keep on blessing and using you.
Great message pastor Ron, this is a confirmation of what I am going through. it is very hard, but necessary for the purpose to be done. We just need to cut off anything that is hindering us from doing God’s will for our life. We just need to ask Him for help, believe me He will. Thank you Pastor for another great message, God bless you and your ministry. Love to hear you preach.
Thank You for the word! The spirir of God is always in the house! You hit home every time and I appreciate that very much, I’m tellin you I’ve been eatin that word on a daily basis so thank you for allowing God to use you, to Apostle Ron and Hope for allowing God to use you in the way that he does, it does not go unappreciated, cha’ll i travel all the way from columbia when I can just to get that word and if I can’t i am always watching online. THANK YOU!!!!!
What if they keep coming back? what then should i do.